No situation in this life is perfect. But Allah promises you this: with every one hardship, He will give you many reasons to find ease. Every test comes with gifts. And every gift comes with tests. See the gifts, and you will find ease. See the Giver, and you will pass your tests.
I never understood why a girl is always suppose to be that ride or die chick that stays with a man and helps him build and become the man she deserves but a guy is never told to stay with a woman while she finds herself. A guy will always look for that perfect woman but we are suppose to settle for a building project?! Fuck that.
There are Muslims who drink.
There are Muslims who do drugs.
There are Muslims who smoke.
There are Muslims who don’t pray.
There are Muslims who have sinned over and over again.
If you see them this month, in the blessed month of Ramadan, and they are fasting or they are attending prayer – do not point out the fact that they have sinned. They may have sought the forgiveness of the All-Forgiving; and He may have forgave them.
Welcome them and be an inspiration to them. This may be the Ramadan that changes their habits one by one.
Perhaps a single action of that person you label as a ‘Ramadan Muslim’ on this day will surpass all of the worship and good deeds that you spent a life time doing - Relax, and focus on yourself.
Allah took drunkards, prostitutes, murderers, thieves and sinners and He changed their lives and made them awliyah within the blink of eye due to a sincere supplication and a teary eye. Nothing is difficult for Allah - This is the month of miracles and the month that transforms lives.